The video discusses the importance of recognizing signs that indicate whether someone is interested in you or not. The speaker shares 11 signs based on body language and behavior that can help you determine if someone likes you. These signs include:
1. Nervousness and blushing: When someone is attracted to you, they may become nervous and blush in your presence.
2. Long conversations: People who are interested in you will try to engage in longer conversations.
3. Open-ended questions: Asking open-ended questions can lead to longer conversations and indicate interest.
4. Body language: People who like you may display positive body language such as leaning towards you, maintaining eye contact, and mirroring your actions.
5. Proximity: If someone is interested in you, they may try to get closer to you and invade your personal space.
6. Leaning: Leaning towards someone can indicate interest and attraction.
7. Mirroring: Mirroring someone's actions and body language can be a sign of interest and build a connection.
8. Duchenne smile: A genuine smile that involves the eyes and facial muscles can be a sign of attraction.
9. Remembering small details: If someone remembers small details about you, it can be a sign that they are interested in you.
10. Shoe play: Fidgeting with shoes can be a sign of nervousness and attraction.
11. Direction of the feet: If someone's feet are pointed towards you, it can indicate interest and attraction.
The speaker emphasizes that these signs should be considered together and not individually, as people can exhibit these behaviors for various reasons.
Here are the key facts from the text:
1. Anxiety and attraction are strongly linked, according to a research published in Adaptive Human Behaviour and Physiology.
2. When people meet someone they like, they often become nervous, start blushing, and get anxious due to the release of adrenaline hormone.
3. People who like each other tend to have longer conversations, while those who don't like each other try to end conversations quickly.
4. Open-ended questions can lead to longer conversations and are a sign that someone is interested in talking to you.
5. Body language can indicate whether someone likes you or not, with signs such as playing with hair, shoe play, and direction of feet.
6. A person's proximity circle can indicate whether they feel comfortable around someone, with people who like each other often standing closer together.
7. Leaning towards someone can indicate interest and attraction.
8. Mirroring, or mimicking someone's body language and actions, can be a sign of interest and can help build a connection.
9. Remembering small details about someone can indicate that they are important to you and can be a sign of attraction.
10. A person's smile can indicate whether they are interested in someone, with a genuine smile (also known as a Duchenne smile) being a sign of attraction.
11. Making eye contact can be a sign of attraction, with people who like each other often making eye contact and holding it for longer periods.
12. According to a study published in MIT, body language can be used to judge the outcome of a sales pitch or business meeting with 87% accuracy.
Note: These facts are based on the text and may not be universally applicable or scientifically proven.