The speaker discusses the inequality in sexual experiences between straight men and women, citing that women often have lower orgasm rates and less pleasurable sex due to societal expectations and power dynamics. The traditional definition of sex, centered around penile-vaginal penetration, is problematic and ignores the significance of the clitoris in female pleasure. The speaker argues that the idea that female orgasm is less easy to achieve is a myth and that societal factors, such as hook-up culture and gender roles, play a significant role in the orgasm gap. Women are often pressured to prioritize their partner's pleasure over their own and may feel ashamed or unable to ask for their own pleasure. The speaker calls for a shift in the way we view sex, prioritizing equality, consent, and respect, and encouraging men to make women's pleasure and orgasm an equal priority. Ultimately, the speaker aims to create a movement towards true gender equality by challenging the current power dynamics and promoting more pleasurable and fulfilling sex lives for women.
Here are the key facts extracted from the text:
1. According to the Cambridge Dictionary, sex is defined as the activity of sexual intercourse.
2. According to Merriam-Webster, sexual intercourse is defined as heterosexual intercourse involving the penetration of the vagina by the penis.
3. The definition of sex in the dictionary is essentially the definition of penetrative heterosexual sex.
4. Three-quarters of women do not experience regular vaginal orgasm, according to a statistic found by Harvard Professor Elizabeth Lloyd's analysis of 33 studies regarding human sexuality.
5. Women who have sex with other women have orgasm rates that are much higher than straight women's, and almost as high as straight men's.
6. According to research done by Alfred Kinsey, the average time that it takes women to orgasm from masturbation is the same as the average time that it takes men, which is about four minutes.
7. Women are having on average one orgasm for every three that men have during heterosexual encounters, according to a large-scale survey of American adults.
8. Over 50 percent of women report having faked an orgasm, according to surveys conducted by branfos.
9. Women reported giving oral sex more, and men reported receiving oral sex more, according to Wendy Chambers' study on the sexual behaviors of college students.
10. Women were 56 percent less likely to have an orgasm in a first hookup than in a committed relationship, according to a study by sociologists Armstrong, England, and Fogerty.
11. Women in this study reported their partner's complete disregard for their pleasure, and men in the study also reported being sexually inconsiderate.