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The speaker, Caroline McHugh, talks about the importance of being yourself and how to find your true identity. She introduces the "I complex", a model that consists of four circles: what others think of you, what you want others to think of you, what you think of you, and the unchanging you. She gives examples of people who have transcended the judgments and expectations of others and achieved remarkable success by being authentic and following their unique gifts. She encourages the audience to ask themselves who they are and what their message is to the world, and to develop a state of mind that is impervious to external influences. She says that being yourself is the most liberating and fulfilling way to live.
Here are the key facts extracted from the text:
- The text is a transcript of a TEDx talk by Caroline McHugh, a coach and author who helps people be themselves.
- The talk is about the "I complex", a model to help people figure out which "I" they mean when they say "I".
- The "I complex" consists of four circles: what everybody else thinks of you, what you would like everybody else to think of you, what you think of you, and the ever-present unchanging you.
- The talk gives examples of people who are authentic, confident, and humble, such as Jill Scott, Gandhi, and Ellie Simmonds.
- The talk encourages people to ask themselves who they are and what their message is, and to be more of themselves.