The speaker shares a humorous and candid story about the phases of shame a man might go through in his life, particularly around procuring protective sexual items like condoms and the morning-after pill. He begins by describing the initial phase of fear and self-preservation, where men might avoid situations that could lead to such purchases due to societal pressure or personal discomfort.
He then describes the second phase, where men start to seek out these items. He shares his own experience of buying a condom from a health center while also obtaining medicine for his mother, hiding the condom in his wallet for weeks before eventually using it. He also mentions the shame he felt at having to buy the morning-after pill, which he saw as a demonstration of irresponsibility.
Finally, he talks about the third phase, where men must face the consequences of their actions. He shares his own experience of a friend who ended up pregnant after a night of reckless behavior, leading to a disruption in her menstrual cycle. He ends with a call to action, encouraging viewers to like and share his video.
1. The speaker begins by discussing the phases of shame in a man's life. These phases include the first phase of fear, the second phase of needing to obtain a condom, and the third phase of needing to take a morning-after pill .
2. The speaker mentions that some men may not go through these phases due to their power or influence .
3. The speaker describes the first stage of shame, where he would go to a health center to get medicine for his mother and would hide a condom in his pocket out of shame .
4. The speaker talks about the second stage of shame, where he would purchase a condom from a pharmacy .
5. The speaker shares the third stage of shame, where he would buy a morning-after pill from a pharmacy after unprotected sex .
6. The speaker mentions that he was ashamed of dentists because they had to try on shoes in stores, and he was ashamed of not being able to show his penis .
7. The speaker talks about his experience with a pharmacist who sold him a condom, and he felt judged for his purchase .
8. The speaker shares his experience with a pharmacist who asked him about the size of the condom and who reassured him that it was normal to make such purchases .
9. The speaker talks about his experience with a pharmacist who sold him a morning-after pill, and he felt judged for his purchase .
10. The speaker shares his experience with a pharmacist who sold him a morning-after pill, and he felt judged for his purchase .
11. The speaker talks about how he felt relieved after taking the morning-after pill .
12. The speaker shares his experience with a pharmacist who sold him a morning-after pill, and he felt judged for his purchase .
13. The speaker talks about how he felt relieved after taking the morning-after pill .
14. The speaker shares his experience with a pharmacist who sold him a morning-after pill, and he felt judged for his purchase .
15. The speaker talks about how he felt relieved after taking the morning-after pill .