The Boy Crisis: A Sobering look at the State of our Boys | Warren Farrell Ph.D. | TEDxMarin - Summary

Summary

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**Title:** The Boy Crisis

**Key Points:**

1. **Prevalence:** About 30% of the audience has a son, grandson, or nephew struggling with motivation, grades, ADHD, or video game addiction.
2. **Societal Blindness:** Society is blind to the "boy crisis" due to historical dependence on boys' willingness to die for the country, making it hard to acknowledge their vulnerabilities.
3. **Causes of the Boy Crisis:**
* **1. Dad Deprivation:** Leading cause, resulting in lower empathy, assertiveness, grades, and higher rates of suicide, homicide, and incarceration.
* **2. Male-Teacher Deprivation in Schools:** Boys do better with male teachers, and the feminization of education exacerbates their problems.
* **3. Lack of Purpose:** Traditional masculine roles (warrior, breadwinner) are no longer sole options, but alternative purposes (e.g., caring professions) are not actively promoted to boys.
4. **Consequences:**
* Poor academic performance
* Higher rates of suicide and homicide (including school shootings, predominantly by white boys)
* Increased incarceration rates (93% male, mostly dad-deprived)
5. **Possible Solutions:**
* Expand boys' sense of purpose to include caring professions
* Encourage father involvement (e.g., a White House Council on Boys and Men)
* Emphasize that boys can find love and value through being loved, not just through achievements (inspired by John Lennon's experience)

Facts

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**Demographics and Statistics**

1. About 30% of the audience had a son, grandson, or nephew with problems (motivation, grades, ADHD, or video game addiction).
2. Boys have fallen behind girls in every single one of the 70 developed nations (according to the U.N.).
3. Developed nations have a greater propensity for divorce, often leaving boys without their dads.
4. There's been a 700% increase in the US prison population since 1972.
5. The US prison population is 93% male, mostly comprising dad-deprived boys.

**Education**

6. Since 1980, California has built 18 new prisons and 1 new university.
7. Boys are one-third more likely to be graded higher on a reading test when the teacher doesn't know the test-taker is a boy (U.N. study).
8. Male teachers can positively impact boys' academic performance, on average.

**Mental Health and Crime**

9. There has been an average of one school shooting per week in the US since Sandy Hook.
10. School shootings are mostly perpetrated by white boys.
11. Boys are more likely to commit suicide than girls, with rates increasing by age:
* Equal rates before age 9
* 2x more boys aged 10-14
* 4x more boys aged 15-19
* 6x more boys aged 20-24

**Other**

12. The US has a White House Council on Women and Girls, but not a similar council for boys and men.