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**Context:** YouTuber Josh (Op Josh The Tube) and his girlfriend Nessa create a Valentine's Day video answering fan questions about their relationship.
**Key Points:**
1. **How they met**: Josh slid into Nessa's DMs after seeing her on a "40-page" ( likely a social media platform or online community).
2. **First move**: Josh made the first move, initially attracted to her physical appearance.
3. **Relationship timeline**: Started dating on October 19th, kept it a secret until now.
4. **Reason for secrecy**: Josh wanted to ensure his intentions were genuine and protect the relationship from external stress and hate.
5. **Falling in love**: Nessa says she fell for Josh in late July, while Josh claims it was during the "Boys of Summer" tour.
6. **Personal quirks and pet peeves**: Nessa tends to step on Josh's shoes, while Josh teases Nessa about her poor navigation skills.
7. **"I love you"**: Nessa said it first over FaceTime.
8. **Children**: Josh wants 3-4 kids, with a balanced mix of boys and girls.
9. **Challenges**: Admit to having some arguments, mainly due to spending too much time together. Find long-distance relationships challenging, especially when apart for a month.
10. **First kiss**: Josh initiated the first kiss at VidCon, when Nessa was leaving his room.
Here are the extracted key facts in short sentences, numbered for reference:
1. **Valentine's Day Video**: The content was created on Valentine's Day.
2. **Relationship Start Date**: Josh and Nessa started dating on October 19th.
3. **First Move**: Josh made the first move by DMDing (Direct Messaging) Nessa.
4. **Initial Attraction**: Josh was initially attracted to Nessa because he thought she was "a hot tip dog girl".
5. **Secret Relationship**: The couple kept their relationship a secret for a while.
6. **Reason for Secrecy**: Josh wanted to ensure his intentions were genuine and not driven by fame or fleeting interest.
7. **External Pressures**: They faced issues from others trying to sabotage their relationship early on.
8. **Going Public Concerns**: Josh believed going public immediately would have led to more stress and possibly a breakup.
9. **Falling in Love Timeline**:
* Nessa: Late July
* Josh: During the "Boys of Summer Tour"
10. **Initial Impression**: Nessa initially thought Josh was weird and wasn't attracted to him.
11. **Desired Family Size**:
* Josh: Wants three or four children, ideally two boys and two girls.
12. **Pet Peeves**:
* Josh's pet peeve about Nessa: She steps on his shoes.
* Nessa's pet peeve about Josh (implied, but not directly stated): Driving directions.
13. **First "I Love You"**: Nessa said it first over FaceTime.
14. **Breakup History**: They briefly broke up a week after their initial start but continued texting.
15. **How Josh Asked Nessa Out**: After her homecoming, at her friend's house, he decided he wanted her as his girlfriend and asked her out after kissing.
16. **Arguments**: They've had minor arguments, notably one about filming too many takes.
17. **Long-Distance Challenges**: Find it hard when they're apart for a month without seeing each other; LA is easier for Josh due to distractions.
18. **First Kiss Initiator**: Implied to be Josh, but he jokingly claims to have "good game" without confirming.
19. **Video Context**: The Q&A is part of a YouTube video.
20. **Future Content Teaser**: Promises another video if this one reaches 50k likes.