Clinical psychologist Marisa de Abreu discusses situations where people stay in relationships not out of love, but for convenience. She lists several reasons why people might do this, including:
1. Financial security
2. Emotional security
3. Status or social inclusion
4. Physical attractiveness
5. Desire for companionship
6. Fear of loneliness
7. Need for emotional support
8. Material support (e.g., someone to do household chores)
9. Facilitating social interactions
10. Enabling dysfunctional behaviors or addictions
Dr. de Abreu notes that while these relationships may seem comfortable or convenient, they can also prevent individuals from growing, changing, and developing emotional awareness. She encourages people to reflect on their motivations and consider seeking help from a psychologist if they feel stuck in a relationship that is not fulfilling.
Here are the key facts extracted from the text:
1. The speaker, Marisa de Abreu, is a psychologist.
2. She is discussing signs that a person may be in a relationship for convenience rather than love.
3. Some people stay in relationships due to financial security.
4. Emotional security is another reason people stay in relationships.
5. Status and social inclusion are also reasons people stay in relationships.
6. Some people use their partner as a means to an end, such as to alleviate loneliness or to have someone to talk to.
7. Having a partner can make a person feel validated and appreciated.
8. Material support is another reason people stay in relationships.
9. Some people stay in relationships because they don't want to deal with their own emotional issues.
10. A partner can provide a sense of security and stability.
11. Some people stay in relationships to avoid feelings of loneliness and emptiness.
12. Having a partner can distract a person from their internal issues.
13. Some people stay in relationships because they feel a sense of responsibility towards their partner.
14. A partner can provide emotional support and comfort.
15. Some people stay in relationships because they feel it's better than being alone.