The speaker shares their personal experience of how their brother-in-law, Arif, won over their family's hearts, particularly their mother's, through his gentle and respectful nature. Arif, a doctor, was introduced to the family by the speaker's sister, and he made a good impression by being polite, helpful, and showing genuine interest in getting to know them. The speaker highlights the importance of building a relationship with the family of the person you're interested in, rather than just focusing on the individual. They also share tips on how to get close to someone's family, such as showing attention to their needs, being respectful, and being genuine in your interactions. The speaker praises Arif for being a good role model and a caring person, and expresses gratitude for the lessons learned from their experience.
Here are the key facts extracted from the text:
1. The speaker addresses their sibling, "Sis, Brother and Sister."
2. The speaker's husband is a doctor.
3. The speaker and their family usually gather at ISIS's house on Sundays.
4. The speaker's mother did not attend college.
5. The speaker's mother learned to be independent.
6. Arif is a role model in the family, especially for Brother Ori.
7. Arif has helped the family a lot.
8. Arif's job is to take care of patients.
9. The family does not experience domestic violence.
10. The speaker's husband is helpful and supportive.
11. The speaker's brother-in-law is also supportive and helpful.
12. The speaker believes that a soul mate is in God's hands, not in the hands of others.